SexInBW is closing in on a fairly significant milestone as far as followers go. I started this blog about two and a half years ago, as an outlet for myself. Just a place to keep things that I liked, desired, have lived, hoped to fulfill, etc. This is a side of me that only a select handful of people know about. Most of the time, with almost everyone I know, I’m fairly straight laced. I push boundaries a little with people I’m completely comfortable with, but totally respect when people push back.
My site has opened my eyes, my mind, and my body, to a lot of things I did not really give much thought to before. I’ve discovered a more dominating side to my sexual personality, with which I have become come very comfortable. I thank the one or two very special people who have joined me on various adventures. I know we have awakened things, and explored things we had not before, and those memories will be something I will always treasure. Sad to say, but we have all moved on at this point, grown up some, committed ourselves to different things and different people. But I love you, still, in my own special, dedicated, and completely non-stalkerish way. ;)
I’ve discovered various sexual experiences which I was not entirely comfortable with, but which are now real turn ons for me. I truly hope my blog has inspired some of you in the same way. Inspired and encouraged you to explore and experiment, and stretch the boundaries of who you are sexually. There are not enough thanks to adequately express my appreciation for those few of you who HAVE written me to tell me that this is so. Those short missives mean the absolute world to me. And they inspire me to keep plugging away at my small dot on the internet map.
I’ve learned in my conversations with my followers that women are every bit as sexually depraved, and wanton as we believe men to be. Often even more so. I think it’s a travesty that our societies, especially here in the repressed United States, promote certain stereotypes for both men and women. And our general avoidance of discussions of sex as a whole here in the States truly borders on puritanical lunacy. I’ll never understand how we can show dozens of people being shot and presumably killed in an action movie with no real concern, yet to show a couple having sex is taboo.
But like the majority of you, I truly enjoy sex, and love to explore. There’s a lot of us who would have clearly been destined for the love and flirtatious traits had we been Sims. And I believe it’s a shame that we can’t discuss the subject as openly as people who fawn over the families, are passionate about their career aspirations, or who brag about their bank accounts and the things they are able to buy with them. Why is it we are frowned upon for wanting to discuss something so fundamental to our existence?
Those of you who are reading this have really stuck around through a lot, many of you since the very beginning, and I appreciate you very, very much. I’ve tried to keep my blog honest. I’ve tried to keep it a beautiful representation of many, different aspects of sex. But while trying to present beauty, I’ve attempted to not skimp on the hotness. It is often a balance from one blogging session to the next.
Some people can’t take that kind of heat. That random penis sliding up their dashboard is JUST TOO MUCH, even though they’re always tempered by a feminine partner. I estimate I’ve probably lost 25-30% of my total follower numbers over the course of my blogging. Those who followed for a while, but dropped me like a hot potato when some couple enjoying anal sex slipped in between their emo, dark romantic, rainbow, 1D, pot smoking, or fashion pics. That’s why I love each of you who are still around. You’re just as depraved as I am. And I know that you over there, yes, you, are even a little bit worse. But I absolutely LOVE that about you. :D
This blog is about 120 folks shy of 10,000 followers. I never thought I ever had a chance of getting anywhere close to that. But you guys… You’ve liked. You’ve reblogged. Many of you left my captions on the pics when you reblogged, which means a lot to me. You’ve enjoyed my tastes. You’ve wasted an afternoon or two, or a morning or ten, masturbating to my collection. You’ve sent me notes about how much you enjoy what I do. And you’ve encouraged me to keep doing it. Without you, I would have stopped a long time ago. But each of you, in your own way, makes those random times when I can actually sit down and post completely worth it.
I NEVER write like this. I know you probably don’t want your enjoyment of the blog interrupted by random crazy thoughts, or diatribes, so I keep this kind of thing to a minimum. But if you can’t share some thoughts at 10,000, when is it okay? lol
So… how shall we celebrate? I’m certainly open to suggestions. In mentioning it to a couple of people, a few ideas were floated around. Maybe a survey to fill out to show much you have learned about me from my site? The followers who come closest could be featured on my site. Maybe a revamp of the blog, complete with a new theme? Perhaps a list of the blogs I enjoy the most? Please feel free to let me know your thoughts, won’t you?